The Student Life
After being a student at the Roosevelt Academy for almost two weeks now, I think I’ve experienced a lot of the student life already. The main reason for that, I think, is because I live in a student house at Bagijnhof. And even though I myself don’t experience the student life that much, I can tell you a lot about it just by looking at my housemates.
For example – the studying during the middle of the night. Honestly, I just don’t get that. I mean, sure, at the end of the semester, I might get so busy that I go to bed at one or something. But seriously, just not sleeping the entire night because of your homework in the first week? And the strange thing to me is that it’s so normal! It looks as if everybody is doing their homework during the night.. I am busy as well, really, there’s a lot of stuff you have to do and I find it really complicated and hard. But then again, you also have so much time! There’s just not that much classes and the rest of the day you can spend doing your homework. At least, that’s what I think. Yet apparently, I’m the only person at this entire school who goes to bed before eleven.. Maybe this will change, because that is what everyone has been telling me, but I hope not, since I still believe that sleep (your health!) is more important than schoolwork. If I have a lot of work, I just go to bed in time and wake up a little earlier to finish it..
And then there’s the dishes. Seriously, how hard is it to just do your dishes when you are done eating? My house is really nice and here, most of the time, everybody actually does their dishes but I’ve seen some houses.. my goodness! I’m glad to be living in this house, where, most of the time, stuff is just clean. I mean, I’m no cleaning monster myself and my room can get a little messy at times, but I think that it is just common decency to do your dishes and keep the bacteria out.. right?
All of this makes me feel that I’m sort of an outsider in the student world. I don’t do my homework at night, I do my dishes, I don’t party and get drunk, I am happy in the mornings and I’m always in time. However, I have also experienced the student life last week. My housemates cooked a lovely dinner and it was really good, but after that I got a strange ache in my stomach. I tried to do some homework but it just got worse and I figured I’d just go to bed, and try to get some sleep.. wrong! The pain got worse and worse and well, I think you can guess what happened: I threw up six times that night and didn’t get a minute of sleep. I emailed my tutor and teachers that I wouldn’t make it to school that day, and after the pain and the puking had finally ended I fell asleep.
I still don’t know what the exact cause was. It might have been the dinner, but I’m the only one in the house who got sick so that would be really strange. But anyway, after this experience I honestly felt like a real student. So even though I do sleep, don’t drink and I’m always happy in the morning, I’m still living a student life.
8 Comments »
Disagree with your concluding line. But you might have guessed that. Ah well, talk to you in, like, half a year
Comment by Frits. — September 9, 2010 @ 10:19 am
Hey Inge

I was exactly like you when I first started RA! If you feel good doing the things you do the way you do them, just continue on. But do not forget that this is the time to be a little crazy as well! I mean, of course you don’t have to get drunk and get home at 4 every tuesday, but just go out with some of the housemates you trust! Find someone who doesn’t drink (as much) and go with them! I heard you saying you didn’t feel comfortable around drunk people, but really, only very very few people at Barrel are drunk, the rest is just having fun! (And many only drink coke!)
I don’t want to push you of course, but I do think you should try at least a few times in the next three years, because now is the time of your life to do things like that!
Think about it
- Alyssia
Comment by Alyssia — September 9, 2010 @ 4:39 pm
Hi!
Thank you for your sweet comment. I might, indeed, in these three years go to Barrel, but right now I’m just happy with the way things are. Maybe when I know the people a little bit better, and when I feel somewhat more at home.
But thank you, again (:
Comment by admin — September 9, 2010 @ 5:17 pm
Haha, OK
Comment by admin — September 9, 2010 @ 5:18 pm
I think living the student live is not about staying up all night (whether it’s for homework or for fun) and getting drunk and living in a pigsty (although I do consider myself guilty of all of the above), but about being free to do what you want to do, with whom you want to do it, and whenever the f*ck you want to do it. You don’t have to get drunk every night with your peers as long as you have the feeling you are spending your time right. But don’t judge them because they are probably doing the same.
Love, T
Comment by Thomas — September 10, 2010 @ 7:59 pm
This is no judgement, Thomas. It is just me saying that I can also enjoy a student life, but that it doesn’t have to include drinking or partying. I do not judge the people who do that (maybe the no-sleep thing, for a little) but that’s their (and your) own choice, so..
Comment by admin — September 10, 2010 @ 10:22 pm
Dear group mate,
Don’t worry, I love going to bed early. And I will not study during night if it is not REALLY really necessary
.
you’re not alone
xx
Comment by Esther — September 13, 2010 @ 11:05 pm
Aww, thank you Esther!
Comment by admin — September 14, 2010 @ 10:17 am
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